For He Created Even from Adam and not from Earth as how He created Man.

“, “Excerpt From My Understandings of Man, Woman and Love.

The Holy Quran said that Eve was created from the Rib. A most crooked bone in the bone.

That is how woman is all about. Firm, Crooked, Needed support and Protection, Care and Love.
Without Care and Love, and Being Gentle to her, she won’t be straighten up as how you want her to be.You push it too hard, and it breaks. It hurts when we fail in love. We need a woman to care for us too, as they are the source of us not being a tyrant and a Jahilliah, Barbarians as the English classed these Salvages.

Yet, that is how we Mankind are. He made us from piece of dirt and Eve, indirectly same, but a more refined and defined creature. Eve was the answer to Adams need for companion. A place to nurture love to..and in turn nurture our young offsprings.

I had a couple of bad marriages before, and I learnt thru them. Hurts me everytime when she left. Finally it dawned to me that it is MY FAULT. I was the idiot who were treating them badly, self centered and selfish. Typically, that is how we Malay men are like. Chauvanist and Egoistic. Love to take huge risks and alike. we are 9/10 brains and 1/10 emotion but compared to 9/10 emotion and 1/10 brains in a female, that 1/10 emotional side of us can overcome the entire subset of mind and matter and leave everything for the o�ne who we feel right.

Some wondered, to why they are so loving and good marriage but no kids and those who are a bit off the mark has so much kids? Kids are where the superglue comes in. The supposingly bind us together. Make the family unit more stronger, without the need of us being self-centered and think of our own needs, we put in 101% to the child and thus we grew stronger, cos we all think for the best interest of our offspring.

Mind you, I was really a Jack-Shit many years…and till Athira was born. Then, I finally woke up. I really loved that little o�ne so much that I put up with what ever comes thru me. Unlike what I would have done 3yrs ago…I would just packed and left….

You do realise that to love the little o�ne, you love your wife.
To Love your wife, is to understand her..and care for her.

Remembering the oath we take upon marriage:

I take Thee to be my lawful wedded wife,
To Love and To Hold
In Riches or In Poor
In Sickness and In Health
Till Death do us part.

Love you so much dear..and cos I know that you love me so much, make you fury with jealousy, even when I care for the little tot cos I know you care for me.

Happy Mothers Day and Blessed Thee In Spring.

In thought, this is why I married you dear. Thus why I found out that I wanted to be married,
And Have Children with you.